I did not want to use a spreader card or trowel, and I wanted a semi-hard rubber roller that was able to be removed from its handle for easy clean-up. I talked with many places like Woodcraft, Rockler, etc ... they all noted that what I wanted would be cool, but that there was nothing they knew of that could be ordered from their suppliers

so this past weekend I was asked to assist my Boss
there on a shelf and available in many different sizes was an 'inking roller' which met all of my wishes - semi-hard rubber roller, easily removed for clean-up, relatively inexpensive, and (a plus I never thought of) it also included a pair of legs so it could be rested on the workbench while fitting a pair of freshly glued pieces together

here's one local source for these that also sells on-line
Abig Inking Rollers 60 mm Wide, 20 mm Thick
ahh ... another happy ending to a quest for a better tool!
all the best,
R